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Why Women Test Men They Are Dating!
"How Women Will Test You! And What To Do About It..." By Mick
Jones; Author of 'How To Meet Women on the Internet'
Dear friend, No doubt dating online or off, you have been and
are been tested by women. Why? Well that's a long winded answer,
and I gave up physco analyzing women a long time ago. Even women
will admit they can't understand themselves! So what chance do
us humble males have?
Zip! None! Zilch!
So best to just ACCEPT that they do and will test us. Be aware
of it when it happens and deal with it in a way that gains us
the authority and understanding in the relationship. Below are
some examples of how women test us.
Why the testing?
1. They test us to see how strong emotionally we are.
2. They test us to see how smart we are.
3. They test us because they crave drama in their lives.
4. Some test because they enjoy making us uncomfortable.
5. They test us because they can. :-]
The following examples are tests from the type of women you do
not want to get involved with. So be aware of, and try to avoid
these types of women.
Let's look at the tests.
1) The old 'outrageously flirting with another man in front of
you' test.
2) The old 'yelling at you for checking out another girl to see
what you do' test.
3) The horrible and dreaded 'canceling a date at the last moment
for no reason' test.
4) The worst one of all, 'getting you really turned on while
making out and then saying no to see if you really respect me'
test. [I really don't like this one.]
There are many, many more tests but this is enough for the
purpose of this article. Now let's look at ways to RESPOND to
these nasty little tests as opposed to REACTING.
1) The old 'outrageously flirting with another man in front of
you' test.
a. This one was really tough to take with a woman I was in love
with for a long time. I thought she would grow out of it. But
she didn't. What I learnt to do however was to ignore her when
it happened and enjoy my evening by chatting to other women or
friends of hers. The best thing you can do is to NOT make a
mention of it or big deal of it. If possible strike up a
conversation with either her good looking friends or other women
at the venue you are in. This will cool her off and if it
doesn't, you may have an unsuitable partner who will flirt every
time you go out. You can only change yourself and your
emotions
so it's unlikely she will change this habit. If she flirts,
ignore it and enjoy your night. If she is always a flirt, you
need to move on from her, she is trouble.
2) The old 'yelling at you for checking out another girl's arse
to see what you do' test.
a. To start with, try to avoid checking out other girls in her
presence. This gives you integrity and a style above others. If
she does lose it without reason for doing so, she is likely
insecure and looking for drama. Don't yell back at her and
calmly tell her to settle down. Smiling, tell her you are going
to spank her when you get home if she doesn't behave. This
should defuse it, by getting a laugh and she may just want you
to spank her! :-]
3) The horrible and dreaded 'canceling a date at the last moment
for no reason' test.
a. This is really disappointing isn't it? You are about to walk
out the door and she sends a sms Canceling. The most effective
way to avoid this is to mention that one of the worst things
women can do is to not show up and cancel dates. If you state
this when you arrange for a meeting, it does help prevent it
from happening. We are all busy and need to plan ahead to be
effective. However be careful not to write her off as she may
have a legit reason for it happening. If it happens twice in a
row, she's gone...don't put up with it!
4) The worst one of all, 'getting you really turned on while
making out but then saying no to see if you really respect me'
test.
The toughest one of all. Best to back off a little and be calm
about it. Don't sulk or push it. Just relax and have a bit of
fun somehow. If you are cool about it and she can see that you
aren't stressed, she'll likely relax and you have passed the
test. Then just gently start making out again. Chances are you
have proven that you respect her by remaining calm and playful.
There you have it. You will be tested, that's life, How we
respond to it is the key...
All the best, Mick Jones
http://www.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com
About the author:
Mick Jones. Mick has cut his teeth on the front line of the
online dating battlefields. After many wounds and scars, he now
has consistent success! You can too, to sign up to his free
newsletter, subscribe box is on our home page at;
http://www.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com Mail to;
editor@howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com Wren Crescent, Buderim,
Queensland, 4556, Australia. Mick Jones.
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